Conversations about relationship violence and sexual misconduct are difficult. The terms used and the meaning they convey are very important. To help students, faculty, and staff use empowering and trauma-informed language, terms, and concepts, the RVSM Expert Advisory Workgroup partnered with Violence Free Communities to develop resource guides. In addition to providing recommendations on terminology, the guides include information on how to plan trauma-informed meetings and seek survivors’ feedback, as well as suggestions for how to work with survivors.